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Good call about clear the air talks , better wait until her period has finished by the sound of it .
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I'm guessing she has been at your mate for years to get rid of you and he has been paying her lip service rather than discussing it with you.

My advice would be to play the game. Print off places to rent from Daft.ie and even go to a few viewings so she thinks you are trying.

Call her and ask her out for a drink (without your mate) to go through your plans with her. If you get her on her own when she has calmed down, and she thinks you are on her side, you'll be grand.

If that fails, you need to go and sleep in a garda station, call the Sun to come and take your picture and put you on the front page the next day, and you'll have a free house within a week.
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Ive a spare room if she's looking for somewhere to stay.
 
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

So, just to be clear, the consensus is that I'm a third wheel, with no social awareness, who needs to move out now, and should have copped this months if not years ago, while my mate is yellow for not mentioning anything to me before now, despite her having mentioned this to him before, but his fiance is still completely overreacting and being totally inflexible, and I need to get out to avoid ruining both my friendship with my mate and their relationship with each other, but somehow do that without it being both me and my mate rewarding her selfish behaviour?

The thing that gets me most is that I've paid my mate tens of thousands in rent over the years and she hasn't so much as put a fiver towards the ESB.


Your mate seems decent, trying to please both of you.
You’ve paid a lot of rent, but probably less rent than in the “open” market.
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Originally posted by Devrozex Devrozex wrote:

Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

The thing that gets me most is that I've paid my mate tens of thousands in rent over the years and she hasn't so much as put a fiver towards the ESB.
 
No, but I'm assuming she sucks him off. You're better off continuing to pay the bills instead of coming to a similar arrangement.


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Originally posted by Denis Irwin Denis Irwin wrote:

Originally posted by Devrozex Devrozex wrote:

Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

The thing that gets me most is that I've paid my mate tens of thousands in rent over the years and she hasn't so much as put a fiver towards the ESB.
 
No, but I'm assuming she sucks him off. You're better off continuing to pay the bills instead of coming to a similar arrangement.


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It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.

SD at least there is a decision maybe not one you wanted I am sure you will land on your feet
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.

Seems fair enough SD.You have had the benefit of cheaper rent for a number of years and they arent turfing you out straightaway.If it was a normal tenancy you probably would have a lot less savings and possibly moved a few times over the years,
Probably the best scenario all round,your mate doesn't need to fall out with you or his missus.

TBH I dont know how you stuck it out for 4 years and this day was always going to come.
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.

How much stuff have you got that requires moved? I work with these sort of complaints from tenants in the north. If you have lived in the property between 5-10 years you are required to have 8 weeks notice to quit the property.
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.
That sounds pretty good, you've come out alright! Everything's coming up Milhouse.
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As an outside observer you've gotten around 2 years extra out of the situation through your friends lack of balls and your obliviousness, so you should look at it as a positive really, thats a lot of extra income towards a new house you saved in that time.
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Originally posted by rossieman rossieman wrote:

Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.


TBH I dont know how you stuck it out for 4 years and this day was always going to come.

+1.

Some of the posts are might not you want to hear but if you forget about the girl being a coont, how is their relationship supposed to develop otherwise? Circumstances change unfortunately but one day you will be the one saying I’m having no one else in except from my own girl 
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I think giving you to till the end of the year when you’ve been third wheeling it this long is fair enough. 
I know it’s not ideal in the short term but the bigger picture is you’ve done alright out of it for a good while. 
The poor me dramatics might be a little OTT, no offence 
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Originally posted by bogball88 bogball88 wrote:

Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

It seems that they want me out by the end of the year. I won't be able to buy somewhere before then so it looks like I'm going to be renting somewhere else.

Great. Absolutely great. I'm going to have to move twice. If this was a normal tenancy, I'd be entitled to 196 days notice, or about six and a half months.

How much stuff have you got that requires moved? I work with these sort of complaints from tenants in the north. If you have lived in the property between 5-10 years you are required to have 8 weeks notice to quit the property.
His friend is basically operating under the rent a room scheme and standard tenancy agreements do not come under this nor should they. He could easily have given a month's notice.
It is unfortunate timing for you Dave, but under the circumstances comes across as very fair. Maybe you could stay short term in a disused train carriage Smile
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Originally posted by SuperDave84 SuperDave84 wrote:

So, just to be clear, the consensus is that I'm a third wheel, with no social awareness, who needs to move out now, and should have copped this months if not years ago, while my mate is yellow for not mentioning anything to me before now, despite her having mentioned this to him before, but his fiance is still completely overreacting and being totally inflexible, and I need to get out to avoid ruining both my friendship with my mate and their relationship with each other, but somehow do that without it being both me and my mate rewarding her selfish behaviour?

The thing that gets me most is that I've paid my mate tens of thousands in rent over the years and she hasn't so much as put a fiver towards the ESB.

wearing your work clothes having a wank on the couch to Judge Rinder on the telly while she is in the kitchen chopping veg isn't very social aware i must say
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Originally posted by 9fingers 9fingers wrote:

I think giving you to till the end of the year when you’ve been third wheeling it this long is fair enough. 
I know it’s not ideal in the short term but the bigger picture is you’ve done alright out of it for a good while. 
The poor me dramatics might be a little OTT, no offence 

Big time, I don’t think you’re getting shafted whatsoever, you’ve had a very good arrangement for a very long time and you know that deep down. 

Hopefully you can find a short term rental that will tie you over until you find somewhere to buy. 
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