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Borussia ![]() Jack Charlton ![]() ![]() Joined: 14 Oct 2010 Location: UK Status: Online Points: 9964 |
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The head is indeed a funny thing. Hopefully you are able to talk to those closest to you.
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Huggybeer ![]() Liam Brady ![]() Joined: 29 Mar 2011 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 1386 |
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Dont under estimate the impact of Winter dark evenings on form and energy levels |
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Getting old and intolerant
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Double Maxim ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() ![]() Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Location: Sunderland Status: Online Points: 42156 |
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Christmas on your own I wouldn't recommend it.
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Double Maxim without doubt the greatest drink in the world
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Hotlips_Hoolahan ![]() Jack Charlton ![]() ![]() Joined: 04 Aug 2020 Status: Offline Points: 6600 |
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Double Maxim ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() ![]() Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Location: Sunderland Status: Online Points: 42156 |
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The loneliness doesn't go away but thanks for the advice.
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Double Maxim without doubt the greatest drink in the world
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Trap junior ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() ![]() YBIG Minister of Doom & Gloom Joined: 25 Jan 2010 Location: Irish Riviera Status: Online Points: 38382 |
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Lonliness is a bitch but as said don't be fooled by social media or all that bolloxology DM. Maybe get stuck into some new activities in the new year. A social club or drama class etc.. literally anything to get meeting people. Staying on your own waiting to feel better is not the right approach. You should get proactive imo.
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Artie Ziff ![]() Ray Houghton ![]() ![]() Joined: 10 Oct 2007 Status: Offline Points: 3471 |
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Howdy DM, I hope the Sunderland results are cheering you up a bit. It's the hardest time of the year for many. But there will always be another brighter day ahead.
As mentioned a new hobby in 2023 like hillwalking or sea walks groups are always looking for new members. Or perhaps volunteering with a charity, scouts, food banks, education centres etc. Personally, if I had time (maybe in the future) I'd teach adults to improve their reading skills. As the proverb goes give a man a fish you feed him for a day but teach him how to fish you feed him for life. |
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Double Maxim ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() ![]() Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Location: Sunderland Status: Online Points: 42156 |
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I actually do some work with an autism guy reading to him which I love It's not so much finding new things to do I've a full itenary ( I was walking for about an hour this morning) it's coming back to a cold empty house anyway I feel positive currently having a pint of DM before watching the match. Thanks to you all for your kindness most appreciated.
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Double Maxim without doubt the greatest drink in the world
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MC Hammered ![]() Jack Charlton ![]() Joined: 05 Oct 2011 Status: Online Points: 6691 |
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You’re a good lad DM. I hope you have a great 2023
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El Puto Amo
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Double Maxim ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() ![]() Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Location: Sunderland Status: Online Points: 42156 |
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Thanks I really appreciate those kind words.
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BigStrongMan ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() Just Modding Like Joined: 22 May 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 107398 |
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Borussia ![]() Jack Charlton ![]() ![]() Joined: 14 Oct 2010 Location: UK Status: Online Points: 9964 |
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Fill the time outside of your gaff as best you can - not always easy - and that hopefully makes your time at home “your space”.
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notpropaganda73 ![]() Davey Langan ![]() ![]() Joined: 17 Feb 2016 Location: Donegal Status: Offline Points: 876 |
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been a very rough 2023 so far, we moved house which was full on at the start of the year and then my partner (she's Spanish) got awful news from home - her first cousin died by suicide there last week. Apparently he had been struggling for a long time but kept it quiet. and just the drib drab of more information coming through as well, it's been awful. She's distraught over it, they were very close growing up, at their grannys for Christmas and New Year etc., but you know yourselves started drifting a little when they got older and just not keeping in touch as often. Thankfully we managed to get her home for the funeral but she's racked with guilt now, I've been that person left behind and asking all the questions and what you could have done different etc., but even though I understand how she's feeling I've no idea how to support her through it.
I don't mean to make it about me at all I just needed an outlet here to get it out a little, but I've been really struggling to support her I think, though I know she would say she appreciates how I've been there for her etc. Even though I'm probably hiding it well enough from her I'm struggling when I'm left alone, can't focus on my work at all (which is piling up big time) and just generally feeling extremely low/on the verge of tears. It's brought up a lot of old feelings of anxiety and depression so I'm looking at speaking with a counsellor again sooner rather than later. Thankfully I have private medical insurance through my work and there's a route through that to have sessions direct with counsellors or psychologists after initial assessment. My girlfriend is on my insurance plan as well so I think we'll do it together this weekend. anyway just needed to get that out
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oldbilly ![]() Ray Houghton ![]() ![]() Joined: 30 Sep 2016 Status: Offline Points: 3143 |
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Good man, talking is half the battle. Been similarly affected over the last five or six years, there’s never a chance to take a breath and relax but we’re getting there slowly. You’re doing absolutely the right things though. Good luck to you both.
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No Pasaran!
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cullenswood ![]() Kevin Kilbane ![]() Joined: 27 Jan 2012 Status: Offline Points: 285 |
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Go for the counselling. The assessment is an easy process, and you will probably have a 15/20 min call with a counsellor to help out initially and then they will set you up with a number of sessions with another counsellor in your area, or over the phone if you would prefer. As mentioned, talking to someone helps a lot and can bring you back from 5th gear to 1st gear in your head. Well done on starting to get it out.
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Borussia ![]() Jack Charlton ![]() ![]() Joined: 14 Oct 2010 Location: UK Status: Online Points: 9964 |
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It does sound like from those who would know better than me that you've made the right move already. Hopefully you'll be back to feeling better soon.
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notpropaganda73 ![]() Davey Langan ![]() ![]() Joined: 17 Feb 2016 Location: Donegal Status: Offline Points: 876 |
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cheers for the replies folks, much appreciated
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horsebox ![]() Robbie Keane ![]() Born n bred in darndale. Joined: 03 Feb 2010 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 34062 |
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Get yourself out and go for a run and work up a sweat - it might help clear your head.
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It was far across the sea,
When the devil got a hold of me, He wouldn't set me free, So he kept me soul for ransom. na na na na na na na na na na na na na na na na na. I'm a sailor man from Glasgow to |
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