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Claret Murph
Paul McGrath Hmmm, Goodness, I must say Joined: 16 Apr 2009 Location: Tibet Status: Offline Points: 15728 |
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Time to move out SD you have been there long enough , she has weeding plans , babies , and goodness knows what else and for sure she wants you gone .
I feel for your mate in all this as that poor lad is in a real pickle no matter what happens .
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Gary McKay
Roy Keane Yo Adrian Joined: 21 Jul 2007 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 13816 |
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Free gaff. Wants the ring on the finger, half the house. Bonnet de deuce. |
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kimbap
Liam Brady Joined: 08 Oct 2011 Status: Offline Points: 2605 |
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It's a sh*t situation no doubt. I think it's time for you to move you (you probably know this yourself) However you can't do that in a couple of days in most towns never mind Dublin.She has to understand this or be made to understand it. Also she has to understand that she can't make cause such upheaval in someone's life just because she has a bad case of the blobs.To bow down to that kind of selfish unreasonable behaviour would be a bad marker to set for your mate going forward.
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SuperDave84
Robbie Keane ooh Thomas, how could you do this to me! Joined: 26 Aug 2011 Location: Far Fungannon Status: Offline Points: 21384 |
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I know it's time to move out. It's just that because I want to buy somewhere, rather than rent, it is definitely going to take a bit of time. I don't want to rent again, spending extra cash, and having to move twice. If I have to, I will, but I certainly don't want to rent again. I've been waiting on stuff from my accountant for a few months before I can go looking for a mortgage (the joys of being self-employed) and I know it'll take at least four, if not six, months from then to find somewhere, although I've a fair idea how much they'll lend me. I just assumed I had until about April time one way or the other, and then this is sprung on me. It seems totally unreasonable to spring this now, without any warning, and blackmail my mate (and by extension me) by threatening to move out unless I do.
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bhob
Roy Keane YBIGs Donald Trump Joined: 13 Feb 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 10470 |
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Can you not sit down with them both and explain your situation to them and let them know that you're looking to buy a place but really need their help for the next few months, give them a time line and a date you're planning on moving out? If she's still a **** about then kick her in the gee and leave
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SuperDave84
Robbie Keane ooh Thomas, how could you do this to me! Joined: 26 Aug 2011 Location: Far Fungannon Status: Offline Points: 21384 |
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That's my plan now, yeah.
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Croftman
Liam Brady Joined: 18 Aug 2014 Status: Offline Points: 2554 |
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Might be no harm leaving out the kick though....just a thought
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Some people just deserve a slap
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lassassinblanc
Paul McGrath Cheese, it’s not just for eating Joined: 27 Sep 2010 Location: Clairefontaine Status: Offline Points: 16463 |
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SuperDave84
Robbie Keane ooh Thomas, how could you do this to me! Joined: 26 Aug 2011 Location: Far Fungannon Status: Offline Points: 21384 |
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So, just to be clear, the consensus is that I'm a third wheel, with no social awareness, who needs to move out now, and should have copped this months if not years ago, while my mate is yellow for not mentioning anything to me before now, despite her having mentioned this to him before, but his fiance is still completely overreacting and being totally inflexible, and I need to get out to avoid ruining both my friendship with my mate and their relationship with each other, but somehow do that without it being both me and my mate rewarding her selfish behaviour? The thing that gets me most is that I've paid my mate tens of thousands in rent over the years and she hasn't so much as put a fiver towards the ESB.
Edited by SuperDave84 - 20 Sep 2018 at 1:05pm |
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Jack Charlton The F The F The FAI Joined: 30 Jun 2009 Location: Abbottstown Status: Offline Points: 9155 |
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bhob
Roy Keane YBIGs Donald Trump Joined: 13 Feb 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 10470 |
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Yeah but she has a fanny
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kimbap
Liam Brady Joined: 08 Oct 2011 Status: Offline Points: 2605 |
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She's sounds horrible. If this doesn't end well make sure you mention your last paragraph before leaving
Edited by kimbap - 20 Sep 2018 at 1:10pm |
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Devrozex
Jack Charlton Joined: 23 Oct 2010 Location: Dublin Status: Offline Points: 7675 |
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No, but I'm assuming she sucks him off. You're better off continuing to pay the bills instead of coming to a similar arrangement.
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pre Madonna
Robbie Keane I am MALDING Joined: 30 Nov 2014 Location: Trumpton Status: Offline Points: 44659 |
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What's the going rate for a rattle in Dublin? She has been paying her way alright!
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Jack Charlton The F The F The FAI Joined: 30 Jun 2009 Location: Abbottstown Status: Offline Points: 9155 |
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Dave any chance you could move in with parents or family just to tide you over till you get sorted ( I know it’s not ideal) btw you are in no way to blame for any of this if you have made your plans know to the geebag, sounds like she is using the situation to test your mate and trying to put down a marker, if the lad takes your side and explains the bit more time you need she should recognize he is basically a good mate and a good guy and should be delighted to have him but if she is having none of it then I am sure to say she is just a selfish coont and only cares about herself, he might surprise you and tell her to get ta fck
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Croftman
Liam Brady Joined: 18 Aug 2014 Status: Offline Points: 2554 |
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You'd always planned on leaving anyway and he has surely told her about that, what got at her to go off on one now instead of discussing it with you first? Hopefully she'll calm down and get a bit more reasonable but you're going to have to have a chat with her alright as said above just to tell her your side and plans. Unless she's a right coont she'll be ok with it
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Some people just deserve a slap
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McG
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Make for the hills for the weekend if you can. Then crunch talk Sunday eve.
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whitesideOnside
Liam Brady Joined: 24 Mar 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 1202 |
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Most of us lads don't realise that arguments with girls are rarely about the subject at hand. But that's for your friend and her to resolve.
Once you announce you have definite plans, will be moving out and just need some time, she will probably calm down. Sometimes things can build in a person's head and once they say it and get some clarity they then realise it isn't as important as they had convinced themselves it was. I'm surprised they as a couple didn't politely ask you to move out before this. It surely would make sense to live on their own to make sure they are happy and comfortable with each other before even getting engaged, but that's for the past now.
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