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Ok they want their own space etc but why was the row, as it seems, specifically over you? 
Did you get on with her beforehand? 
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have a chat with your mate and see what 
He wants to do 
He wants you to do 

Their row sounds like it was about something else and you got caught in the crossfire

He might be having second thoughts and is looking for a way out. 

If he gives in he is fuked for the rest of his married life - he might as well give her his balls now 

No matter what I wouldn’t be going anywhere near the wedding 
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Cook them both some Parmesan and paprika crusted cod fillet, honey roast carrots, basil buttered peas and individual potato gratin and wait for all this to blow over. 

Hope it works out for you SD!

 
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Originally posted by Newryrep Newryrep wrote:

have a chat with your mate and see what 
He wants to do 
He wants you to do 

Their row sounds like it was about something else and you got caught in the crossfire

He might be having second thoughts and is looking for a way out. 

If he gives in he is fuked for the rest of his married life - he might as well give her his balls now 

No matter what I wouldn’t be going anywhere near the wedding 

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Sorry Dave but you need to move out......today.

She basically moved in in 2014......4 years ago.....they’re living as a couple together 4 years....and you’re still there!

Pack your bags....you got a good run.

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Originally posted by Newryrep Newryrep wrote:

have a chat with your mate and see what 
He wants to do 
He wants you to do 

Their row sounds like it was about something else and you got caught in the crossfire

He might be having second thoughts and is looking for a way out. 

If he gives in he is fuked for the rest of his married life - he might as well give her his balls now 

No matter what I wouldn’t be going anywhere near the wedding 

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I don’t know if the row was over something else. I don’t really think it was but either way it’s been going on a while but it’s all news to me (I’ve basically not been here for the last two weeks). I’ve generally got on fine with her or so I thought but it seems she hasn’t thought the same - though that’s not been mentioned to me either. 

Frankly, I don’t want to move twice. I don’t want to put my mate in a terrible position either though. I think the best thing for them is for me to move out ASAP (undoubtedly, I suppose) but that is really backing down in an argument I have no part it. Ots definitely not best for me. It would absolutely gall me to move out by the end of the month just to placate toddler like behaviour, especially when it is something that will cost me money, and really isn’t in my interests, but I owe it to him more than I owe it to her. I can’t leave him having to make the decision - it’s not fair on him. It’s just a matter of seeing how long I can get and finding somewhere else. 

I sure as hell don’t want her saying she’s not moving back til I’m gone. I just hope it doesn’t come to that. 
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Yeah, sounds like at the very least you'll have to put the wheels in motion in terms of you moving out. I would just say to your mate that you'll start looking for places to move in to from today - it's not like you can move out instantly and given the state of the rental market in Dublin they surely wouldn't expect it to happen too quickly either. The situation may improve after a couple of days and she could calm down a bit and come to terms with you staying to the point that was initially understood by all parties - i.e three or four months before the wedding.
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Originally posted by seanyshuffler seanyshuffler wrote:

Cook them both some Parmesan and paprika crusted cod fillet, honey roast carrots, basil buttered peas and individual potato gratin and wait for all this to blow over. 

Hope it works out for you SD!

 


That does sound like the an amazing dish, Where was this mentioned before was it things that annoy you thread LOL

Also was the lad who fiance the same guy who didn't show up for this amazing dinner? Did he not show up for this dinner because of her? if the answer to both of these is Yes then throw it back in his face
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I’m perplexed that given your profession, you’re so in the dark. Have you asked why she wants you to move out? And why so suddenly?

Not having a go at your mate by any means but surely he can tell you as it is and put you clear on the reasons and state of play? People are odd as f**k.
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People are odd as f**k.
No just women.
 
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His missus just sounds like a bag of sh*te. She knew your intentions were to move out in a few months so she's just being a f**king dramatic bitch and trying to laydown the law with your mate.
 
Regardless of what happens here, this is going to somewhat sour your relationship with your mate. If you're forced to move out you'll hate her, if you stay she'll probably leave your mate and that's that.
 
Either way this is a really sh*t situation she has put you both in. She's just a selfish arsehole and I feel sorry for your mate having to put up with that nonsense.
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Originally posted by Borussia Borussia wrote:

Move in with NVidic !

When push comes to shove, if he's serious about his relationship with his missus then he's going to end up siding with her in the end whether he wants to or not. If you want to keep the friendship then it's probably going to mean that you have to move out to do it. So I'd probably offer to move out but obviously let him know that you will need some time to sort yourself a new place due to the scarcity of affordable rooms etc (gives you the excuse to drag your feet a bit on it !) and then let him try and square that off with his missus. If she has a problem still then that's with her as you can do no more.

Sorry to hear that SD. She sounds like a proper coont and there could be more to it that you don't know about. I agree with what Borussia's said above, think it's probably the best thing to do. 
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If he had any balls he would dump her. She must really love him, sorry, the house, to issue an ultimatum like that.
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