Moving in with the missus.

horsebox wrote: Seriously from living with the miss's a number of years now and watched some of my mates take that step too all I can advise is to be a man and act like a man. Law down the law and the rules early doors otherwise your just going to turn into a bitch. Simple things like Friday night is the lads night out - get her to do the washing and ironing and you'll look after XYZ things like that.

London is such a great city -

I have worked there since I was 16 - so much to see and do - expensive however. No mon no fun in the vibrant    English capital. If your a music lover your sorted too.
Its the only way you will know if its going anywhere.

Living together is no big deal -
A nice honeymoon period, sex gets better if you are going to live in sin, you might as well make the most of it.

One important thing, make a life for yourself outside of her - don't do everything together - have your friends and have your separate time. Its good advice for both parties. Sometimes in big cities its easier to do things together and you will drive each other mad.

When I moved in with my husband I had a bottle of vodka - a bottle of white wine and a jar of Mayo in my fridge - I was slim as a pancake - I never cooked. My husband is a great cook and fed me, he tells me I look better now, but its not true - every women I have ever known gains weight when they move in with their other, half, men too - so stay active.


good luck.

[QUOTE=darmack] For every time I have to watch some rubbish reality program I'll invite another person over to stay with us  in May.

Heading over on Monday. Thought we might as well spend New Years over there.

All the best over there Darren

PanteirA wrote: Laying down some simple house rules is very important. Who does what in the house needs to be sorted as soon as possible. Very true what Andkend said too about gaining weight, so keep her walking and tag along yourself now and again

its a vicious circle with us ladies, we eat, we gain weight, sometimes the guy does'nt even notice but we do and it takes a while to work out that drinking beer and eating pizza at the same rate as your fella won't work for you.

Then the confidence is hit, then your not as up for sex because you don't feel you look as good- jealousy sets in because you notice your fella eyeing up the hotest girl in the room and not paying you as much attention.

A few sulky evenings-

Then you get it together hit the gym get back the confidence and it all goes to a new level -

All part of the proccess of relationships and getting to know each other really.

darmack wrote: Heading over on Monday. Thought we might as well spend New Years over there.

Good luck!

horsebox wrote: Seriously from living with the miss's a number of years now and watched some of my mates take that step too all I can advise is to be a man and act like a man. Law down the law and the rules early doors otherwise your just going to turn into a bitch. Simple things like Friday night is the lads night out - get her to do the washing and ironing and you'll look after XYZ things like that.

Edited by Ireland4ever - 29 Dec 2012 at 10:38pm

dont do it we are bitches