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Bit of debate in the office here. I always thought that the standard was 50 a head kind of thing. Apparently I'm low balling and way off. What do yas think is appropriate?
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€150 for friend/family member is standard I think? €100 for everyone else
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Is that a head or a couple? Literally 4 different pepole have to me four wildly different things
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€100 per head 
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Originally posted by MC Hammered MC Hammered wrote:



€100 per head 


Yep.

If an acquaintance only/work colleague €150 for a couple.

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€100 is what I work to also.
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200 for Family or close friend. 100 for everyone else.

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20 euro and a meal voucher LOLLOLLOL

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€100 a head unless they gave me less for my wedding and in that case I just match it. Kept a list of what everyone gave me on my big day which I refer to before hitting the ATM
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Anything between £70 and £150 depending on how close they are to you, how much you respect them, and how much you care if they think you're a miserable bollocks
 
 
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Thankfully haven't had to go to a wedding in 2 years. Went through a phase where I was at one a month for about a year. 

Usually give €150 between me and the wife. €250 if it's a real close friend. One of my mates gave me €400 for my wedding and he didn't even bring a partner with him. I'm dreading when he gets married.
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200 for a family member, 100 per head for a friend or other relative.
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Generally your trying to compensate for the cost of you being at the wedding. I generally go for 100 per person - so €200 for the two of us or €250 if they are close friend or particularly fancy/expensive wedding.
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Usually 100 to 150 depending how close you are to them. The other cheeky kants who send a wedding list or ask for money they can either fück right off or get a voucher for some sh*te shop over 200km away from them.
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There is no rule in wedding etiquette about presents. You don't have to do anything. But if you wish €100 per head is generous when you are a friend. The degree of relationship should be factored in.

Wedding registries are the best for guests and are brilliantly instructive. That's not "cheeky" at all. As a guest at many weddings I love seeing a list.

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Originally posted by zizu Kilbane zizu Kilbane wrote:

Bit of debate in the office here. I always thought that the standard was 50 a head kind of thing. Apparently I'm low balling and way off. What do yas think is appropriate?

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Usually stick 100 in an envelop for the 2 of us for weddings at home. This as we have to fly over for it and book accommodation etc, so I keep it at 50 each.
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Originally posted by drog addict drog addict wrote:

The other cheeky kants who send a wedding list or ask for money they can either fück right off or get a voucher for some sh*te shop over 200km away from them.
 
People who have wedding lists are generally massive kunts alright.
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