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Do you mean you’d pay her back what she paid in, but you’d keep/stay in the house?
Is she paying less because she’s earning less?
I’d imagine if it went pear shaped it would be a 50/50 split.
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Originally posted by Guppy Guppy wrote:

Good evening folks, 

Hoping someone can give me a bit of advice, me and my long term partner have just bought our first home. The deposit came from mostly me and a bit of my folks, the same with the fees etc. My missus father is now paranoid and wants a legal contract stating if we broke up shed be entitled to x amount, she's paying about 1/3 of the mortgage. We're probably 1/2 years from me popping the question also.

How would that even work? Is it possible? I'm happy to not have one and just trust that 1 it won't happen and 2nd id pay her what she paid. 

Any help is fantastic. 


Hi Steve.  Not trying to tell you your business as its already in place but I'm not sure getting a mortgage out with a girlfriend is that wise.  I can only imagine it being a mess if you two split up down the road. Her dad doesn't sound like a swell guy either tbh.  You are doing everything it seems yet he wants her to get half of everything if it goes tits up.  He should have coughed up some cash as well if he had any decency.

That's my opinion. Not that I am an expert or anything.
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I did this with an ex. I paid the deposit. We split up and she took half what we made from the sale but not the deposit. Dont do it.
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Tell her ould fella to mind his f**king business. 
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If she is on your side here, she'll just tell her Dad that you have both boxed that off legally. If she is not prepared to do that, then I'd wonder how much of the pressure/paranoia is actually coming from the father.

I'm pretty sure you will be both on the deeds as joint owners, unless explicitly called out differently, so legally, she'd be entitled to half, unless you successfully challenged otherwise.

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Originally posted by Guppy Guppy wrote:

Good evening folks, 

Hoping someone can give me a bit of advice, me and my long term partner have just bought our first home. The deposit came from mostly me and a bit of my folks, the same with the fees etc. My missus father is now paranoid and wants a legal contract stating if we broke up shed be entitled to x amount, she's paying about 1/3 of the mortgage. We're probably 1/2 years from me popping the question also.

How would that even work? Is it possible? I'm happy to not have one and just trust that 1 it won't happen and 2nd id pay her what she paid. 

Any help is fantastic. 
Her aul fella has you sussed out Wink
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Originally posted by MayoMark MayoMark wrote:

Tell her ould fella to mind his f**king business. 
this is the best advice and if he doesn't like it then tell him to  stump up the rest of her part of the deposit.....


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Are both names on the Deeds Byrner?
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Originally posted by Guppy Guppy wrote:

Originally posted by McG McG wrote:

Are both names on the Deeds Byrner?

Nah just mine. Mortgage is fully in my name, we where paying just under £1000 in rent and I was paying 2/3 of it. The idea was to keep the same idea but buying meant more sense as it was ours, this idea only came up when her dad appeared. 

Then tell her Dad to f**k off! 
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Originally posted by Guppy Guppy wrote:

Originally posted by McG McG wrote:

Are both names on the Deeds Byrner?


I don’t see eye to eye with the family, they say a lot and offer f**k all. This was their latest opinion. 



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Something similar happened a friend of mine and it was a sh*t show. An agreement should be in place but the agreement should be in your favour towards the deposit you paid but not necessary if she isn't on the deeds. 

If you have an agreement and something happens she can make you sell
If she's not on the deeds she is screwed if it did go tits up. And once you marry she's entitled to 50% anyway. 

Keep as is as you have way more to lose than her
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Originally posted by 9fingers 9fingers wrote:

Originally posted by MayoMark MayoMark wrote:

Tell her ould fella to mind his f**king business. 
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