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ringerbell
Jack Charlton Joined: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 8003 |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2014 at 2:54pm |
As some of yous might know I decided back at end of last year to stop gambling. This was because I realised I was betting money I couldn't really afford to lose and this was affecting those around me. I didn't seek any outside help for this and just cancelled accounts etc and wasnt finding it as hard as I expected it to be.
That was until this week. With the hype around Cheltenham I found myself setting up new accounts etc and have been betting away with no real thought on what else I could do with the money. That was until today when I spent money I owed my sister and now I feel really bad about everything and realise I might need to get some help on this issue after I see how easy I slipped right back into it. Wondering if anyone has any info on people who deal with this type of addition |
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greenforever
Jack Charlton Joined: 07 Apr 2008 Status: Offline Points: 6342 |
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gamblers anonymous, professional help from people who know is your best option IMO
very brave off you to admit it and it's probably the most important thing to admit that you have a problem. |
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I know nothing :-)
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ShayGivensBum
Jack Charlton The lighter coloured grass is painted Joined: 24 Aug 2010 Status: Offline Points: 8316 |
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Ringerbell fair play for coming on here and seeking some help with this.
This is a very big problem in Ireland esp with young men and it is very much swept under the carpet. Firstly have you self excluded yourself from all online bookies you had accounts with? If not do that. You can also self exclude from the shops. Just go in and let them know. Secondly I would recommend you contact Gamcare (They offer a chat service there's the link - http://www.gamcare.org.uk/chat2/) They will give you tips and advice. Good luck with giving it up again
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Richmond Ultra
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On accounts like paddy power,they give a list of organizations to contact.
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Omnia Causa Fiunt
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eire32
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Very hard time of the year.
Best of luck |
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Stillhuntinghenry
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Dont know how close you are to Derry rb but there are GA meetings up here weekly. I had a family member who lost everything to gambling and I mean everything. I wish it had a happy ending but it isn't, he never managed to turn things around and is still gambling abd destitute. But it's up to how hard you want to turn things around
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"Not one cent" - RTID on Mark Quigley's pay-off from Shamrock
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Stillhuntinghenry
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Here you go pal, best of luck
http://mindingyourhead.info/service/gamblers-anonymous-lderry |
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"Not one cent" - RTID on Mark Quigley's pay-off from Shamrock
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irish_major
Ray Houghton Bookie Slayer Joined: 20 Jan 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 3924 |
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Good man ringerbell. Keep the head up, i can only imagine how tough it is. Ive had some good days and some bad days, i wouldnt say im addicted but can see how people get really roped in. Avoid the tips thread and threads like cheltenham for starters, just completely ignore them. Dont be too upset, im sure your sister will understand. Take it one day at a time and you'll be grand.
At the end of the day its only money
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Here we go again
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Bob Hoskins
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A friend of mine had to do 6 weeks in the Rutland clinic, he was a lose everything and was terrible. Best thing he has ever done
Your situation doesn't sound that bad but it could go that way, if not checked properly. As you have already given it up for a good while, it shows you can. Best of luck |
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Romario 2016: And the ticket mafia gets caught! Well, four years ago I had already told the government.
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Bob Hoskins
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He also met Paul McGrath at the Rutland too, which was an added bonus.
He put some serious time into playing chess as there was a lot of time on the addicts hands, so his chess game improved a lot - these are the unseen benefits you don't hear about. |
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Romario 2016: And the ticket mafia gets caught! Well, four years ago I had already told the government.
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greenforever
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At the end of the day it's his life, not only money, addicts can and have lost homes, businesses, families etc. A very brave move to post the issue here, or anywhere publically and he will need plenty of support. |
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I know nothing :-)
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ringerbell
Jack Charlton Joined: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 8003 |
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Cheers everyone good to see people willing to help me. I feel so bad about it that this time I'm determined to give it up for good. Will keep yous updated on how it going
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Claret Murph
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irishmufc
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Sound skin is Ringerbell. Good luck with it pal
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ringerbell
Jack Charlton Joined: 12 Nov 2009 Location: Ireland Status: Offline Points: 8003 |
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Just signed up to this site so that's the 1st step. Last year I didn't feel the need to tell anyone or look for help as thought I could do this by myself but knw now its easier to beat with help from others |
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the closest i will ever come to playing for ireland https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0_7w4JyvI4
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Cabra Hoop
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Ringerbell
Give 01 8721133 a ring and have a little chat. You'll get the help you need.
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" BFC always gives me a laugh........ "
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Newryrep
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Can only echo what's been said before best of luck and hope you get sorted
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'Irish' Songs for an Irish team - no SPL EPL generic sh*te
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Sham157
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I'd say I bet on a horse about 5 times a year, just not into it so have no idea what it takes to give it up. Best of luck with it
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