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Originally posted by Liam Green Liam Green wrote:

Look after yourself DM and lads . It can be a very tough time of year . I lost my dad just before Christmas last year and my mum just a few weeks before Xmas the year before and this year it’s all really hitting me . I’m lucky that I had a great relationship with both I suppose but life can be a tricky road sometimes.  

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Look after yourself DM and lads . It can be a very tough time of year . I lost my dad just before Christmas last year and my mum just a few weeks before Xmas the year before and this year it’s all really hitting me . I’m lucky that I had a great relationship with both I suppose but life can be a tricky road sometimes.  
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Not as such but thanks for suggesting it most appreciated. 
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Originally posted by Sham157 Sham157 wrote:

echo the sentiments above, hope you lads are get through it ok. Came into work this morning for the last shift before Xmas to be told that while I was fast asleep, the shift we were taking over from were dealing with an unfortunate soul who jumped off the Bridge/overpass at the Port end of the tunnel. Its a horrible time of year for so many people Cry 

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That's so sad the poor guy.
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echo the sentiments above, hope you lads are get through it ok. Came into work this morning for the last shift before Xmas to be told that while I was fast asleep, the shift we were taking over from were dealing with an unfortunate soul who jumped off the Bridge/overpass at the Port end of the tunnel. Its a horrible time of year for so many people Cry 
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Originally posted by counterlock counterlock wrote:

Originally posted by Double Maxim Double Maxim wrote:

Thanks for the advice bud but it's not quite that simple I'm sitting here currently in tears it's a deep rooted depression.


DM just to say thanks for all the tune's you are listening to throughout the year and games that are on TV. This is a crap time of the year for so many, and you add more to this forum than many others and if you ever need some to talk to just drop me a pm Thumbs Up


Thanks bud that means a lot.
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Originally posted by Double Maxim Double Maxim wrote:

Thanks for the advice bud but it's not quite that simple I'm sitting here currently in tears it's a deep rooted depression.


DM just to say thanks for all the tune's you are listening to throughout the year and games that are on TV. This is a crap time of the year for so many, and you add more to this forum than many others and if you ever need some to talk to just drop me a pm Thumbs Up
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Originally posted by Borussia Borussia wrote:

Originally posted by Double Maxim Double Maxim wrote:

Originally posted by ringerbell ringerbell wrote:

These next couple weeks can't go quick enough for me normally really look forward to christmas but this year I can't be arsed with any of it.

Being surrounded by people but feeling as if you are all alone is one of the worst feelings have ever experienced. Not even bothered wrapping presents or anything feel like I've given up at the minute but stubbornness keeps me going 

Hope things get better for you pal feel for you.
Have the best Christmas you can lads. DM - Maybe you can get to one of the Sunderland games and just be about a few people. I'm sure in the pub beforehand you'll meet plenty of like minded folk who are happy to have a drink and discuss Niall Quinn, Kevin Phillips, Ian Poterfield etc.
Ringer, hang in there and we'll see you in the new year.  

Thanks for the advice bud but it's not quite that simple I'm sitting here currently in tears it's a deep rooted depression.
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Originally posted by Double Maxim Double Maxim wrote:

Originally posted by ringerbell ringerbell wrote:

These next couple weeks can't go quick enough for me normally really look forward to christmas but this year I can't be arsed with any of it.

Being surrounded by people but feeling as if you are all alone is one of the worst feelings have ever experienced. Not even bothered wrapping presents or anything feel like I've given up at the minute but stubbornness keeps me going 

Hope things get better for you pal feel for you.
Have the best Christmas you can lads. DM - Maybe you can get to one of the Sunderland games and just be about a few people. I'm sure in the pub beforehand you'll meet plenty of like minded folk who are happy to have a drink and discuss Niall Quinn, Kevin Phillips, Ian Poterfield etc.
Ringer, hang in there and we'll see you in the new year.  
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Mind yourself DM.  

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Originally posted by ringerbell ringerbell wrote:

These next couple weeks can't go quick enough for me normally really look forward to christmas but this year I can't be arsed with any of it.

Being surrounded by people but feeling as if you are all alone is one of the worst feelings have ever experienced. Not even bothered wrapping presents or anything feel like I've given up at the minute but stubbornness keeps me going 

Hope things get better for you pal feel for you.
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These next couple weeks can't go quick enough for me normally really look forward to christmas but this year I can't be arsed with any of it.

Being surrounded by people but feeling as if you are all alone is one of the worst feelings have ever experienced. Not even bothered wrapping presents or anything feel like I've given up at the minute but stubbornness keeps me going 
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Being lonely at Christmas feckin horrible.
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Originally posted by ringerbell ringerbell wrote:

Christ lads Mental health is the most f**ked up thing. I should be living my best life at the minute in a good job, engaged to the best person you could meet and looking forward to a holiday of a lifetime to Orlando with her in march yet I'm in the worst form I've been in for ages literally feel like I'm present in body only my head is gone literally sitting here ready for work and can't be arsed

Can't understand how to beat the f**king thing I've done the counselling, I've done the meds etc and when I think I'm doing alright it comes back at me worse than ever 🤷‍♂️

sorry to hear RB , hopefully you are out the other end of it  - plenty to look forward to 
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It's definitely one of the tougher times of year I find. Everywhere ya look it looks like everyone is having great nights out, lvoely family time, the reality is very different fr more people.

Add to that then the crap weather and extra hangovers and it's not easy.

Only thing I'd say is to make Christmas what you like, not what people think you are supposed to do. My brother in law decided his perfect day is a day in with his family so literally 3 of them sit in on Christmas for the day and do nothing. Doesn't like turkey so just has a roast chicken isntead. Seems odd, but he's doingwhat he enjoys, never feel any pressure to follow the herd
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