Natalie Sawyer

Baldrick wrote: I didn't say ban anything Denis. Just think there is no harm in highlighting when lads group think, think it's grand to objectify women. Each to their own but it's funny that the reaction on here is similar to how Philip outlines in his tweets.

And I'm sure there's women out there who objectify men. Let's not pretend that it's a one way street.



Edited by Denis Irwin - 31 Mar 2018 at 5:44pm

Denis Irwin wrote: Baldrick wrote: I didn't say ban anything Denis. Just think there is no harm in highlighting when lads group think, think it's grand to objectify women. Each to their own but it's funny that the reaction on here is similar to how Philip outlines in his tweets. And I'm sure there's women out there who objectify men. Let's not pretend that it's a one way street.

And that should be called out too. It's not a battle of gender.

Seems that a lot of comment from some men is sex is something you do to the woman rather than with. Coyne's comment is prime example.

Baldrick wrote: Seems that a lot of comment from some men is sex is something you do to the woman rather than with. Coyne's comment is prime example.

Come off it, that's not a very fair comment. Men are visual, this is nature. Therefore we tend to see ceetain women body parts as highly desireabe. We then talk about them. Women are not so visual. Partly because they don't need an erection to have sex. Women want us to behave like women when we are not. We are built completely different.

Stickittotheman wrote: Baldrick wrote: Seems that a lot of comment from some men is sex is something you do to the woman rather than with. Coyne's comment is prime example. Come off it, that's not a very fair comment. Men are visual, this is nature. Therefore we tend to see ceetain women body parts as highly desireabe. We then talk about them. Women are not so visual. Partly because they don't need an erection to have sex. Women want us to behave like women when we are not. We are built completely different.

What's unfair about it. It's to do with the language used in whatsapp groups and online. Obviously there is nothing wrong admiring a woman visually. But look at coynes comment as an example. It goes beyond that.

By the way. Some posters have said women comment the same way so are calling double standards.    Now you are saying the opposite and are saying that we are built differently and comment on the visual. Which is it.

Is it not possible to admire someone's beauty but also be respectful to them as a person. Of course it is but many people don't.

Edited by Baldrick - 31 Mar 2018 at 6:18pm

Baldrick wrote: Stickittotheman wrote: Baldrick wrote: Seems that a lot of comment from some men is sex is something you do to the woman rather than with. Coyne's comment is prime example. Come off it, that's not a very fair comment. Men are visual, this is nature. Therefore we tend to see ceetain women body parts as highly desireabe. We then talk about them. Women are not so visual. Partly because they don't need an erection to have sex. Women want us to behave like women when we are not. We are built completely different. What's unfair about it. It's to do with the language used in whatsapp groups and online. Obviously there is nothing wrong admiring a woman visually. But look at coynes comment as an example. It goes beyond that. By the way. Some posters have said women comment the same way so are calling double standards.    Now you are saying the opposite and are saying that we are built differently and comment on the visual. Which is it. Is it not possible to admire someone's beauty but also be respectful to them as a person. Of course it is but many people don't.

I said women are not as visual. Of course they are visual to a certain degree but nowhere near as much as us. Another thing is male bravado and ego. Again a natural in built instinct. It permeates all aspects of life- fair enough saying something more like she is gorgeous with a cracker body is a lot more acceptable than some other comments but how long before that becomes taboo as well.

Baldrick wrote: Seems that a lot of comment from some men is sex is something you do to the woman rather than with.

How this thread has gone

On fire with the gifs lassie